I just finished reading the following article from the Galveston Daily News. Please forgive me, but I must have actually read this with my eyes closed, cause I just cannot believe the contents.
Take a look, and see if you find some interesting facts. I know every mother loves her children to no end, but just how many so called 'daughter-in-laws' do you need living at your house at the same time.
Friends: Baby Grace's mom 'quiet, good girl'
By Sara McDonald
The Daily News
Published December 5, 2007
GALVESTON — She was shy, polite and mostly unnoticed in the sea of 2,500 students at Mentor (Ohio) High School.
Then she got pregnant and, inevitably, people started gossiping about Kimberly Dawn Trenor, a 15-year-old honor student who’d be a mother long before she’d graduate high school.
But, after the ripple of rumors settled down, several classmates at the suburban Cleveland high school said they remember the girl now charged in connection with her 2-year-old daughter’s gruesome beating death as a proud mother.
“She loved that baby,” high school classmate Sammi Tuckerman said. “At school, she mostly talked about the baby. The baby was her life. She carried pictures with her everywhere.”
As Galveston County Sheriff’s Office deputies try to piece together how Riley Ann Sawyers’ life ended, Trenor, 19, and her husband sit in jail awaiting possible new criminal charges.
Both she and 24-year-old Royce Clyde Zeigler II are charged with tampering with evidence and injury to a child. Their cases likely will go before a grand jury by Dec. 13, Galveston County District Attorney Kurt Sistrunk said.
Meanwhile, the community where her family has lived for more than 40 years tries to comprehend how and why the shy student became the woman who told investigators grisly details of her child’s killing, as arrest affidavits claim.
Investigators say Trenor and Zeigler beat the child during a four- to six-hour period, then hid her body in a backyard storage shed. They later tossed a plastic container with the child entombed inside into West Galveston Bay, according to affidavits.
The plastic container washed ashore at a small island Oct. 29, when investigators began an international search for the identity of the girl they named “Baby Grace.”
‘A Quiet, Good Girl’
Trenor was raised by her grandmother, who moved to a nursing home while Trenor was a teenager, said Sheryl Sawyers, Riley’s paternal grandmother.
She then moved in with her father and stepmother, but Tuckerman said Trenor told her life at home wasn’t easy.
“She was living with her boyfriend’s family,” Tuckerman said. “Life at her home wasn’t very stable, but she didn’t say much about it.”
In class, Trenor was soft-spoken and made good grades, classmate Eric Doremus said.
“She was a quiet, good girl,” he said. “She was pretty smart.”
When she met Robert Sawyers in high school gym class and the two started dating, the reserved girl became lively and obviously happy, Doremus said.
But, as the couple’s sophomore year wrapped up, Trenor learned she was pregnant.
On the day of her first prenatal doctor appointment that confirmed her pregnancy, she was told to move out of her father and stepmother’s house, Sheryl Sawyers said.
Although Sheryl Sawyers said she was troubled by the news of the pregnancy as well, she agreed to let Trenor move in.
Trenor planned her daughter’s first birthday party during classes and showed pictures of the smiling little blonde girl to friends, Tuckerman said.
But Trenor had difficulty with school work after Riley’s birth, Tuckerman said.
The two friends lost touch. They talked on the phone occasionally, instead of spending time together, Tuckerman said.
A Troubled Relationship
The teenage couple seemed happy, Sheryl Sawyers said. But struggling to provide for their daughter meant that Robert Sawyers, then 18, needed a job to support them. He dropped out of high school and started working nights so he could stay with Riley while Trenor was in school.
Sheryl Sawyers said she had to constantly remind her son and Trenor to keep up with household chores. If Sheryl Sawyers was home, she was usually the one watching Riley, she said.
The young couple rarely saw each other. They spent their waking hours apart and watching the child, Sheryl Sawyers said.
“I think they just grew apart,” she said. “They more or less ended it in October 2006. He came into my room that night, absolutely devastated.”
Meanwhile, Trenor worked at a Mentor bagel shop, took a few courses at Lakeland Community College and became increasingly interested in the online game World of Warcraft, where she met Zeigler.
Even after the breakup, Trenor kept living in Sheryl Sawyers’ condo. Robert Sawyers started dating a mutual friend who later became pregnant and moved into the already-crowded condo, causing more problems in the damaged relationship, Sheryl Sawyers said.
In March 2007, just a week after Riley’s second birthday, Trenor called police during a dispute with Robert Sawyers about a parking space.
Sheryl Sawyers kicked her son out of the house for two nights after seeing him “grab” Trenor, she said.
The fight eventually led to both of them moving out of Sawyers’ house, she said.
Meanwhile, Trenor became more involved with the online gaming world. Zeigler sent Trenor a diamond necklace and Riley an Elmo doll. Sheryl Sawyers said she found cell phone bills that show Trenor and Zeigler had talked on the phone for hours leading up to her move to Texas — including an all-night conversation the night of the parking space fight.
Trenor also filed a restraining order against Robert Sawyers, so Sheryl Sawyers was chosen as a mediator to enforce a court-approved visitation schedule.
But Robert Sawyers only had a few visits before Trenor left Ohio for Texas, although the Sawyers didn’t learn where she was for months.
Shock And Remorse
News that “Baby Grace” was a Mentor child has shaken the quiet suburb, Sheryl Sawyers said. Her family has given media interviews, but she said she’s been unable to return to work or go out in public.
Community members have organized fundraisers for the family to help pay for travel costs to Galveston, so Sheryl Sawyers can meet more of the investigators who worked on the case and attend any court hearings.
Doremus, who works in Mentor, said the speculation about how Trenor came to be involved in such a crime is something the community is still trying to understand.
“There is a lot of shock and remorse,” he said. “Mentor doesn’t get a lot of national attention. That, coupled with the fact that it was someone from Mentor that may have done this; it’s just too much for some people.”
Please!!
Everyone is entiled to their opinion as is Oreograma...So leave Oreograma alone as well.
What Kim did to Riley is
What Kim did to Riley is wrong. Point said. Regardless of her being a nice, quiet girl, that does not justify taking Riley's life. She knew it was wrong and that there is help out there if she was in a situation that she didnt want to be. Enough said.
Ummmm...
Yeah, how terrible of Sheryl...( rolling eyes here and saying all of this with sarcasm, of course )...can you beleive that she had the nerve to provide a ROOF over her children and grandchildren's heads?! Ugh! How dare she?! I mean, it is just not acceptable for a grandmother to show such selfless love and sacrifice for her family, or to be more than willing to help out young parents who already have so many hurdles to cross while learning the ropes of being new parents! Good grief! I bet that Sheryl was even the kind of grandma to get up with her infant grandbabies at night and soothe them back to sleep! She probably even bought diapers and made bottles! I bet that she gave more snuggles and kisses to Riley and the new baby, and provided more encouragement to her son and her grandchildrens mothers than is even acceptable! Ugh! ( Again, all of the preceding is said with sarcasm...clearly, I see Sheryl was doing ONLY what any loving mother / grandmother would do, so for Oreograma to question this in such a fashion just irritates me. )
Sure, it might not have been the "stereotypical, traditional household", but I challenge you to show me a household that IS "traditional".
She did nothing less than extraordinary by opening her home to shelter her loved ones. You know, there are some grandmothers callous enough to close their doors and hearts to their children and grandchildren. Clearly, Sheryl is NOT one of them. So leave her alone.
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I don't think that is what the original poster was talking about guys. Ummm.. Read it again. She is talking about how the media and Kim's friends are trying to portray her as being this shy, quiet, young teen who got pregnant at a young age and just did not know what she was doing when she beat Riley to death. The article is not aimed at the grandmother at all. I think her comment was a question? Maybe the poster is rich and does not understand they were young. No money. No place else to go. I don't know. Then she went on to go like yeah right! Kim is a good girl! (Scarcastic tone)
You know what? That is what they all say about women and men who kill children. Even rapist and pedophiles. Oh but they could never do such a thing. Oh and they are so nice. BS. Look at the women who drowned her 5 kids. She should have got the death penalty. They say she was nice also. Until one day..... What about Jeffrey Dalmer? He cut up little kids and put their body parts in his fridge. He was a school teacher for christ sake! He even burried some outside his home. Oh but all the teachers at school said he was so nice. He would wear suits and dressed so normal. No one knew he was a mad man.
What I say about Kim pfft....Nice my butt. pathological liar maybe. psychopath maybe. Nice . NOT! Truth is....When people are this way...They were always this way. NOTHING justifys brutally murdering a small 2 1/2 year old helpless child. I just want them both wiped off the face of the earth. Out of society. Death penalty is the only prayer I have not got answered yet.
But like what the other poster said in the other topic. Even without the death penalty neither one will survive prision. Jeffrey Dalmer did not make it as many others who were there who kill kids. The ones who do survive it are kept in isolation. Under protection.
No one in the news can tell me that poor helpless Kim could not pick up a phone and dial 911. She was just as much a part of killing Riley as Royce was a part of it. She took part in the beating. She helped cover it up. They are both guilty. Read the affidavits. She admits it.
The news and the shrinks can print all the poor Kim and poor Royce stories they want because it does not change the fact what they did was a crime. They will never look good in my eyes.
very awsome post
very awsome post appalled...;)
I second that.
I second that. Leave Sheryl alone.
And Jesus said
He who is without sin, cast the first stone!!!