Greetings All,
Are you all ready to start working on Riley's Bill ? I know the topic came up a few months back but I have
no idea what became of it. I know all of you came to the baby grace site because you were as touched
by Riley's story, as I was.
We can all make a difference if we work together on this. I know we need Sheryl's input and permission on this
but really I feel we need to put this as a top priority here. This site was named after our little angel Riley Ann and ever since
Riley's Island Petition, I feel as if we can move mountains here.
God Bless You All,
Susan Al Bassam
Angie
I think if you go to the in memory sites for Riley, Tesslynn and maybe Kelsey Briggs, their stories are on the in memorial sites to print off.
You can also check in your state, for Child Abuse Groups and maybe they would have some litereature. I had sent numerous links to Ruhla when she was doing her presentation at the church.
If you have a recorder you can download the 'Dear Mr. Jesus' lyrics and play them.....anyone that hears them, cannot refuse to sign those petitions. Trust ME!!!!! It is Heartbreaking!!!!
Joyce
Thanks Joyce! :)
Thanks Joyce! :)
poems
I found this website with poems written by abuse survivors.
http://www.dayofthechild.org/dc98/poems.htm
This will be of help to.
This will be of help to. Thank you :) :)
The Letter
I will get some thing together for people to sign and run it by Sheryl then get it sent out to everyone after she approves it. Give me a day or so and I will get it done!
Hi everyone!
I just wanted to let everyone know that rumors are true in order for petitions to be accpeted they can not be done online like that have been. With change any law this is a big deal because they need to know that the public is out raged. THEY ABSOLUTELY DO NOT ACCEPT THE ONLINE PETITIONS! How ever they accept letters. These letters can all say the same thing be printed off and they have to have signatures, addresses, dates, and the your name printed. Or it can be petitions we go door to door and get, or stand out in front of stores and such.
Now to me it would be easier to start with the letters just because we can stand in front of Wal-mart or walk around getting people signatures for what ever we have to make up for. I am still waiting to see how many signatures we will actually need!
You all let me know what ya think?
hugs love and be safe!
Christy
I WANT to help. I will be
I WANT to help. I will be very willing to pass out letters and stand out fron t of Walmart or other local chain stores. I must address that I am located in South Dakota. Many have not heard of Riley's story p here. Can anyone suggest something that I can pass out to the people along with the letter to help them understand the severity of this epidemic of Child Abuse? Maybe her story?
A Thought ....
This is merely my thought on the signatures...
Perhaps something can be done prior...
Get the media aware that CHILD ABUSE has GOT TO STOP!!!!
TV, RADIO, Newspaper articles.....that there will be a campaign in your area...to obtain signatures to change the current laws.
Everyone is welcomed to come and sign and also volunteers would be appreciated.
Would maybe save a lot of leg work...and at the same time getting more and more people aware of the problems of today with CHILD ABUSE.
Maybe you can designate a place to everyone to come ....set up a booth....maybe some of the local businesses would donate drinks, etc.
Possibly, a park.....child playground....parking lot... Somewhere where YOU WILL BE NOTICED!!!!!
I think that's a great idea.
I think that's a great idea. If you drum up some media then more people will be be apt to sign the petion than to just look at you as someone bugging them about some other political thing. It would have been wonderful for me to have been prepared ahead of time. we have a hugs rodeo in town this weekend. I could have really promoted to make a change! We even have a parade, which would have been a GREAT opportunity. But, it gives me lots of ideas and I'm not giving up!
SEND ME A LETTER!!
I WILL GET AS MANY SIGNATURES AS I CAN!! I'M ALL OVER THIS!
Christina
Letter
Send me a copy of the letter, and I will get signatures. I do live in Texas, and it is time that we get some laws changed regarding children and non custodial parents and GRANDPARENTS. You have my email address.
Christy
How is Riley's Bill coming?
Love Ya
Alisha
Slow!
I am working on this, I have checked out books and have been reading them and I am learning so much! Did you all know the lady who start the Blue Ribbon Campaign was also the GRANDMOTHER!!!!! There are so many stories out there and we are missing and it is crazy how many grandparents in the United States actually care for the grand children! Can you all believe 4 MILLION children live with their grandparents. I am reading over and over again how they tried to help and how they were the ones caring for the children, how every time they tried to help they were turned away.
This has truly been the most heartbreaking thing I have ever done in my life!!!!!! With each book I read, and every article that appears my heart is more and more broken.
Once I am done getting all my info together there is a retired professor who is going to help me write it up and then we will give it to Sheryl to approve. This will take a lot of time, after we get this wrote up and approved by Sheryl then we have to get support from political figures. We will also have to get the signatures for the petition at this time!
I will try to keep every one a little more updated with my progress, some times I get so engrossed in things that I forget to update everyone!!!!
Sorry :(
Love ya all,
Christy
Way to Go Christy !!
Thank you so much Christy for all your help and effort. Is there anything any of us could do to help?
I am willing to do anything to speed this along in time for the trial..
God Bless You for All your Effort!!
Much Love
Susan Al Bassam
Thanks Christy
I know its going to take a while, thank you so much for working on this...I thought I would just check in and see how it was going...We all thank you and I know Riley does too....
Love You
Alisha
BUMPING
BUMPING
MAKE SURE...
that you sign both of them. And send them to everyone you know.
www.ipetitions.com/petition/tesslynnocull/
http://tessocull.epetitions.net
Christina Kemp
Maybe I should offer $5000
Maybe I should offer $5000 for any inmate to kill Jesse, Stella, Royce and Kimberly(after she has the baby) if Oregon isnt willing to fry these monster maybe we should take the law into our own hands. These monsters don't deserve to be alive, life is a gift and they took someone else's gift. I just hope when Kim has her baby she should really think about who will keep the child god forbid the baby has the same destiny Riley had. Rest in peace Riley and Tesslynn we love you and we will never forget you. Hugs and Kisses sweet angels.
P.s. I know violence isnt the answer but I just help my self. I am angry that the system failed. Tesslynn could of been saved. If those officers would of gone the extra mile to check on Tesslynn than just maybe she would of been saved.!!!
WITH THIS CASE...
With this case, everyone turned and looked the other way. The neighbors said that they could hear her cry at night and the neighbor said something to Jesse Compton and Compton told him that if he called the police that he would kill him and his girlfriend. I would have told that Mother f---er to bring it on and I would have called the police anyway. Then I would have killed his ass myself because he threatened me and I had to defend myself. Anyway, we can not be scared, silent, or blind as to what's going on. We need to open our eyes and we need to speak for those who can't speak for themselves. We need to stand up and fight and scream our lungs out until we get harsher punishments for these monsters that hurt and kill children. These children need us. They need for us to seek justice for them. We are all in this fight together and trust me, I will fight to the bitter end!!!
I LOVE YOU TESSLYNN, RILEY, AND KELSEY AND TO ALL THOSE BEAUTIFUL ANGELS THAT LOST THEIR LIVES TO CHILD ABUSE!!! WE ARE GOING TO FIGHT FOR YOU!!
Christina Kemp
AGREE &
AMEN
Dont get me wrong! I'm not
Dont get me wrong! I'm not just blaming the officers but as law officers they should of taken the extra step to make sure she was fine. What they should of done was taken her aside and asked her questions but instead they were just thinking of ending their shift I'm sure they didnt want to sit there writing a report going into overtime but that laziness cost a little girls life. The one thing I dont understand is Why would the neighbor warn him he should of just called the police plain and simple. makes me sooooo mad.!!!!!!!!
To Liz I agree with you Stupid Neighbors?Did he Care?NO
ShelleyBassett; I,agree with you liz,maybe the neighbor got a shitty,Meth (poison) deal so he threw that Threat out there?Apparently This Weird Nieghbor,did'tn do anything ,maybe Jessy Boy made the deal all-good maybe even a little extra.Something happened he would of called?He was more than a neighbor was probably customer as well!THAT"S what stop him from calling good Oh Jessy boy smoothed it right over?
HEY LIZ!!!
I'm with you on this. If I had the cash, I would have done that a long time ago. I think those prisoners need to know why Jesse Compton is in there and what he did to Tesslynn. Because prisoners do not like baby killers and if they knew what he did, trust me, he's done for!!! It's just like Ursula's story. Look what happened to the monster that killed her. The criminals killed his ass in prison. You're right, if the officer would have gone inside and just lifted her shirt or lifted the blanket off of her, she would most likely be alive today.
The whole point of getting the petition started is to get the word out and let everyone know what Jesse Compton did to Tesslynn and that he needs to "ride the lightening" for it!! I emailed the petition to the local newspaper in Salem, Oregon. We have got to get more signatures. This monster needs to fry and go to hell!!
Christina
Tesslynn's Petition
I hope this does get Jesse executed finally. But last time I looked, there were only 22 names on the petition. Ladies, we need to do this for Tesslynn. I know we can. Look what we got done for Riley. I know that years have passed since this case was brought to trial, so maybe people need a refresher of what this demon did to a little girl. He needs to be put to death. Please forward this to anyone and everyone you can, for a little girl that deserved a far better life than what she was handed. For Tesslynn and for all the other children out there that have suffered the same or similar abuse, for the children that have LOST their lives to abuse. It should not be toleranted. Child Abusers should be convicted harsh punishments and those punishments should be carried out.
Hi Angie can you check to
Hi Angie can you check to make sure I'm on the Petition? Lezeth Castillo is my original name.\
Thanks
There are
105 names on the list. Liz yours is on there.
Only 105 gosh I have to
Only 105 gosh I have to start calling all my friends.
There are 2
Remember that Christina has two petitions on the go!!!!
Crap! I forgot about that
Crap! I forgot about that when I looked!
Just checked
Liz- I just checked the petiton for Tesslynn. She had 26 signatures but I did not see yours on there. did you go into your email address your provided and verify your signature? Double check that. You have to do that and then it will post your signature.
If anyone that crossed paths
If anyone that crossed paths in Tesslynn's life would have gone the extra mile, she may still be with us. It wasnt just the officers who failed her. We just feel more anger towards them because we see police as those who can also help others. In this case they didnt. I cry when I think of that fragile child waving at them as they peered into the bedroom. I just cry. And she smiled at them. She probably thought they were there to save her finally from the devil and nightmare she was living in. Poor little girl...
Ok...Im here to help
Greetings! I know its been a while since I have posted but I try to check up on the site as often as possible. I could not help but comment. I would love to help so please tell me how I can help I also am from TX. My family has contacts with all sorts of lawyers and judges in Nueces County and my father in law even knows a congressman and Senator for TX. Please tell me how I can assist. I am sure I can help as much as I can. Email me!
Live in Texas - let me know
just to throw this out there! I live in Texas so if there is anything I can do please let me know! I would really love to research more and find out my self what I can do but right now I do not have the time. So if anyone can direct me I am willing to help!
Right now I am trying to spend my time on getting ready for April's child abuse awareness month!
So I can not read all of the postings here and keep up!
I do want to let everyone know if there is anything I can do I am here! I really want to help - for Riley! Please just let me know!
Please email me at ruhla12@aol.com if you need anything from people in Texas!
Rileys Bill
I am a parent of a very active four year old baby girl, a 17 year old son and an 18 year old daughter that is in her senior year of high school plus I work 50 to 55 hours a week at night. I dont have alot of time or extra money but what I do have is yours. I have loved this baby girl since I first heard of her, I would love to do anything I can to help you with this, just let me know. I am in Austin Texas if that matters. I have not visited this site in a very long time because it had become to painfull for me and I needed to heal. I keep Rileys picture in a little heart shaped frame sitting beside a little porcelin angel in a shadow box beside my bed, and to this day, I tell her "Good Morning my beautiful Angel baby, I love you" and " Good Night Sweet Heart, I love you so much."........I feel some of the pain seeping back in while I am just trying to write this, I never want to forget her and I never will, she is now a part of my life and my family, I love her so much, I feel bad and guilty that I had to quit coming to this site, the pain was just so consuming and over whelming. I felt I could do more to help her if I could first learn to deal with the pain and anger I was feeling. I am here now and I want to help, please let me know what I can do. Good Luck .
Kstark, don't feel bad
Kstark, don't feel bad because you have not been here.So good to see you again! We know it is painful and we all have our own ways of dealing with what happened to Riley. Some choose not to see or discuss it and heal in their own way and some choose to be around others to talk about it. Me I have been here since day one and just watched all the postings for a while. I never wrote on a message board all the years I had my computer but finally I did here after a while in November and have not stopped since. That is how I need to deal with it. Alot of people left and come back. I see they still care and still love Riley. I see their names looking in the whos online here but sometimes they do not post, but we all are here for you if you want to talk about it. Someone is always here......
We are trying to pass a bill called Rileys Bill. Writing to senators and things like about custody laws and non custodial parents not being able to leave the state without agreement from the non custodial parent. Letting Rileys story be known and abuse cases that have happened because the laws and rights really need to be examined and changed. We are looking into making magnets for vehicles too. Barbie had beautiful bracelets made also. Theres alot going on here!! Glad you are back : ) being here means you are beginning to heal and find ways to help heal yourself and others by helping!
Here is another site Sheryl made for Riley. You can go there and light a candle:
http://riley-ann-sawyers.memory-of.com/About.aspx
and another just for candles:
http://www.gratefulness.org/candles/candles.cfm?l=eng&gi=Riley
The thing we need to do is get an outline of this "Bill"
For the people who live in Texas this is going to be tough because there are so many things happening there it might be best to create a whole new law for there
For Ohio we need to start contacting our State Reps. we will need their support to take this and have it passed!
So first lets outline it, petition it, then state rep it!
How do we organize this?
How do we organize this? Should we create a committee of some sort?
I'm in Texas and I like many others really want this so badly for Riley, but really don't know what to do. We have been talking about this since the beginning of last Dec and it's so wonderful we are making progress.
My thinking on Riley’s bill is basically this: as mentioned by many, allowing the non-custodial parent or grandparent more rights is a great start. With this a missing persons report or possibly an Amber Alert could have been issued after the parent and child are considered missing. Had Sheryl or Robert been able to issue an Amber Alert, I know there would have been a good chance Riley would have been found. I realize there are guidelines to this law as to not desensitize it, but no parent should be allowed to disappear with the child and not inform the other parent as to their whereabouts. Correct me if I am wrong, but wasn't Kim allowed to obtain a Texas driver's license and a marriage license? These are both processed through government offices that could have easily located them. Also as Sheryl mentioned, Kim's father should have been forced by law to inform the Sawyers where Kim took Riley.
This is the best I have; not really knowing if these ideas are good or not. Either way, please let me know if there is anything I can do to help. Christy - thanks so much for being there for Riley as she means so much to us all.
God Bless,
Veronica
Establishing Residency
She may have been allowed to apply for a marriage license simply because he held residency in the state of Texas, but the more research I do on Texas there is not a lot to becoming a resident of this state, simply applying for the marriage license an claiming that was her home would of made her a resident or driver's license( if she was allowed to have one)
Here are some things I found that can help with the residency establishment:
Purchase a residence in Texas and claim it as a homestead;
Register to vote in Texas;
Register an automobile in Texas;
Maintain a Texas driver's license;
Maintain checking, savings or safety deposit box in Texas;
Have a will or other legal documents on file in Texas that indicate residence in Texas;
Have membership in professional organizations or other state organizations; and/or
Establish a business in Texas.
In the state of Ohio you have to live here for a certain amount of time.
If Sheryl would like us to organize a committee or at least have some of us meet some where and discuss this that is fine. I work 9 to noon on Saturdays and I am free after that. I think meeting and discussing this is best because then we can get Sheryl's full input as well as Robert's ( if he so chooses)
Even though the abuse happened in Texas I think the real issue we are looking at is more along the lines of giving non-custodial parents and grandparents more rights. Basically they were being told well you may be a parent but you have no rights to the child because the child does not live with you. (yeah I will hold back on this one) Non- custodial parents are usually given the rights to things like schooling info and daycare providers, but if their child is missing they have no rights. As long as there is visitation established and the parent sees the child on a regular basis(which means keeping track) after the second missed visit with the child(example only) which in Ohio is a weekend and one week day the child can be reported missing and an amber alert issued. (I think this will stop a lot of parents from using their children as game pieces also)
The custodial should not be allowed to leave the state of Ohio (example) without having permission from the courts and the non-custodial parent. The custodial parent should have to report every move with the child even within the state.(even though in state is easier to be found, it should still be reported) I had it in my papers for my 3 rd child who lives with her father because of the schooling she needs that he can not even move next door without having it approved by the courts. The courts and the non-custodial parent will have the right to request a home study done of the new home which consist of talking to neighbors and ex-spouses, require a complete background check of the new spouse or significant other and their parents.
Now with Texas! Did I hear at one point that Kim said she was to scared to leave? I am not trying to get any thing negative started here because we still need to respect Riley she did love her mommy. I am going to have to pull this up again, I know what I want to say about Texas but I think I need to reread some things. Feel free to refresh me though.
Texas I have a feeling is in for some BIG changes, let's hope they can deal with it.
Sheryl or Robert......was there visitation established for Robert? When they went to court was this established through the court?
I will be going to the library on Monday and getting some more information......Sheryl tell me what you think you want out of this? I know one of the things is more grandparents rights in Ohio.
Anyways this is what I have for now......I am pushy person so please when I do it I don't mean to come off rude, and Please everyone call me Chris, and yes I misspelled my name when I signed up......lol.......but Riley touched my heart as she did each and everyone of you and I prayed that wasn't the angel from Ohio because that was just to close to home and when it was Riley I cried for days. I called the local bank where donations were being sent for The family and was telling the lady from the bank about KP.....I broke down and cried on the phone....I made her cry too......As a group we will be heard and Riley WILL have the justice she deserves!
Hugs to all,
Chris
I want to add that even though Riley was in Texas the fault is in the state of Ohio for not helping this family locate Riley in a reasonable amount of time. I believe Texas is having real issues and these issues need to be addressed as well. The fact that Riley was missing for how long and no one questioned it bothers me, ( not Sheryl and Robert) the neighbors didn't question it? I mean my child doesn't play outside and we don't know to many of the neighbors, but when my Jordan was ill and they hadn't seen her in a couple days trust me they asked. I think I had heard the neighbors said Riley played with their children, why would they not question it?
The fact there has been so many in this short amount of time in Texas tells me it is law changing time and it needs to happen fast.
I know I am rambling but I have so much to say......I will type it all out to make sense then paste it here......lol
I am so glad you are on board with this
Hello Christy,
Is there anyone on the BG site that has your email address so we could contact you if we needed
to ? or would you rather have ours? Please let me know what works best for you.
A Big Texas Thank ya to You,
Susan Al Bassam
Please feel free to contact me anytime
My email address is christyhershner@yahoo.com and my screen name for messenger is christyhershner! Right now I am only working about 13 hours a week but i am planning my wedding for December so if for some reason I don't answer right away that is why. My friends always get up set with me because they message me and I answer hours later......I just forget to turn it off or put my status as away!
If you all want to email me the Ideas you have for each state please do so and then I can outline them. Just be sure to tell me which state they are for!
I hope everyone is having a good weekend!
Hugs,
Christy
Chris, thanks for all of
Chris, thanks for all of your input. There are many people that stay connected here on a daily, if not weekly basis and I am sure they will come up with many ideas and directions to take this. I completely understand and agree it's best we start with Sheryl and Robert's input . I too will email you so I am able to keep up and help any way I can.
This weekend, our weather in Dallas is gorgeous. It's sunny and in the 70's. I hope your weekend is going well too. Planning a wedding can be quite a challenge. I hope the two of you planned a really awesome honeymoon.
God bless,
Veronica
I completely agree................
If ever there was a time for change it is NOW and I really believe the good people of Texas would
welcome any new laws that would assist in this change. We have got to start working on this from now to be ready to present Riley's Bill in time for the trial. Riley is known world wide and this helps in speeding things along because people do want to help but often don't know how. Their signatures on a petition for Riley's Bill might seem small but can help in a big way. I am going to contact Sheryl today and see where she stands on this. I will let you know what is going on today.
God Bless you All,
Susan Al Bassam
Riley's Bill
Hello all, sorry that you have not seen me much, but this has been a hard week. I am all for creating a bill that helps in any way to prevent what happened to Riley happening to any other children. As I am not a lawyer and do not know much about the law or drafting bills I am glad that we have the help of Christy Hersher. I do believe that they need to act quicker when the child and the custodial parent can not be found. It needs to become a criminal matter and moved on quickly. If in this case they had the means to force Kimberly's father to tell us where she was we may have been able to do something before it was to late. There needs to be more rights for the non custodial parent. There was nothing that we could do except hire a lawyer and work through the courts which we all know takes forever. So please do what you can, I am behind you all 100% and will do all that I can to help, someone just tell me what I can do. I love all you ladies, and of course you to Greg :-) xoxoxo
Contacting the "political" figures
I have been in contact with my grandfather who knows a lot about this. So as soon as I have a go ahead I will pressure him a little more. My cousin is also the mayor of a small town here in Ohio and I can pick his brain to help with this also. My cousin is an attorney in Arizona and he is just a call away for legal info should we have questions.
Sheryl can feel free to contact me at any time as I do not want to step any toes.....I just get so pumped!!!!
Pump it up
Christy you have my permission to get as pumped as you like. Just keep me informed of the progress and what is going on and if there is anything that you need for me to do. I am here to do all that I can in the name of my granddaughter Riley.
Susan
You just let me know what I need to do girl!!!! You can count on me!!!!
Love Ya
Alisha Webre
Let me know
I'm here in Texas, ready to do whatever needs to be done. You can contact me at barb0301@satx.rr.com . I'm home all day, and free to do whatever you need me to do Christy, and don't mind calling whoever needs to be called, doing research, etc. I'm in for the long haul !
Hugs,
Barbie
I am happy to help and consider it a privilege and honor!
Hi all ! I did make it here and I have been talking with several people so we can get this started and passed, Riley has touched so many of us and changed our lives so this needs to be done for her.
Now what state are we trying to pass this in Ohio, Texas or both. I have yet to figure out how to pass a law as a federal law but today was finally guided in the right direction.....but first it has to be made a law.
Has anyone out lined the beginning details of the law? the start of what will be in it? I know there was mention that she just up and married that monster and just took Riley away from every one she knew.......there should be some thing stating along the lines of a custodial parent can not take the child/children out of state to live without consent of the father and the courts.........of course it will need to be worded better ......I will get some more information for every one so things can move in the right direction and I can email anything to my professor so he can proof read it and make any necessary changes!
Christy
I am so happy to see you aboard us! I can see you are wise and your input is greatly appreciated. I believe in my heart that we will get things accomplished for Riley. I love that girl so much and as everyone else, think of her everyday.
Welcome Aboard !!
Thank you so much for coming aboard and offering your valuable assistance.
My personal opinion would be that we should focus our efforts on changing the law in both Ohio and Texas so that if the custodial parent removes the child out of state without notifying the other parent and the state, and leaving a forwarding address, it becomes a criminal matter. What happened to Robert is that it was a civil matter and he could not file a missing person report on Riley. His only option was to try to locate Riley himself, with the help of an attorney. Law enforcement could not / would not get involved. This HAS TO CHANGE !!!! To me, it is interfering with a custody arrangement when you remove the child from the state and don't allow visitation rights.
JMO !!
Thanks so much, and I look forward to working hard on this with you.
Barbie